I think everyone needs to draw a line between being disappointed with the issue though (which is what I am) and then discussing it on a forum and the debate/hostility that comes from that environment.

I practically stopped visiting forums. When I read analysis and interpretations posted there I'm often surprised by the amount of wank how differently people see the story and how twisted their logic is.

I think I'm slowly but inevitably retreating back to fanficland... :)